Why it's so hard to date guy with baby mamas? I have never met his baby mama. When he is dating I respect his personal life and I expect him to do the same. Baby Daddy is an American sitcom created by Dan Berendsen that premiered on June 20, on ABC Family (later Freeform). The series follows Ben, a man in his. Hate Baby Mama Drama? She started dating her boyfriend and his baby mama would spread rumors about her having AIDS and my cousin didn’t do anything.
If you have no children of your own, you could feel isolated in your interactions between him, his children and his ex. I am in a relationship withathe love of my life I love him so much and he loves me two but he have 2 kids with this crazy woman that drives me totally crazy and I feel like I am ready to gave up forever but every time I try to let him go he dont let me its been 5 years of nothing but stress and drama I dont know what else to do should I go or should I stay.
When a man tells me he has kids, he gets approximately 1 minute of my time after that. I let him know this will probably never turn in to more. I once had a guy to try to talk to me and we was getting along great until he dropped a bomb. He said he had no kids but he did. His daughter was being born the next day on day two of us talking. He said his baby mama had moved and she was acting funny to him. I ran faster than the roadrunner and let him know that his focus should be on his newborn and not on some new booty that he isnt going to get.
He did his rant on black women not being understanding of his situation yes he really did, the kicker is that his baby mama had a girl. That was in February. He now has some white girl 5 months preg with a boy so he basically had unprotected sex with another woman while his first kid was only two months and yet complained how his baby mama wouldnt let him keep her.
Im soo glad I meep meep like the road runner out of that messiness. But there is actual a BM syndrome Divorce Related Malicious Mother Syndrome:. A mother who unjustifiably punishes her divorcing or divorced husband by: Attempting to alienate their mutual child ren from the fatherInvolving others in malicious actions against the fatherEngaging in excessive litigationThe mother specifically attempts to deny her child ren: Lying to the childrenLying to othersViolations of lawThe disorder is not specifically due to another mental disorder although a separate mental disorder may co-exist.
Is this REALLY about a malicious baby mama? Or, does the fault lie with a trifling man that is all about his needs over his wife, woman, or child he should be committed to the welfare of taking care of?
What is the technical term for these men? I could think of a few, actually. While I do not begrudge a dude for having a past, I also have a right not to have his baby mama in my future. When things are the best between you and your S.
Let the church say amen! Life is too short. The only time you have baby mama drama is when one or both of them have not truly let go. These baby mama tips also apply to ex-wives. More reason to expand to other races as you get older. A lot has to do with acceptable norms in different races. Not everyone man is down with having a baby mama or two, etc…. The solution to this problem seems very simple to me. You can tell a lot about a person by their dating past, as well as by the way that they treat their exes who have their children.
And I agree that a lot of this mess could be avoided if people made better, more thoughtful decisions about who to get involved with. Anyway, the advice in this article is great. I also prefer to not date a man with children. However, if I do choose to get involved, it will be with someone who has one child by one woman and he has to have a respectful, civil relationship with her.
Been there and done that…. If u have kids early then grow up and move on then ususally u accept a partner with kids because u have them but some baby mommas are just jealous and miserable because the daddy stepped his game up. I say pray and make sure you are not being disrespected.
Stupid babymomma usually run out of options. I agree to a certain degree. This can not be blame on a woman who is wanting to settle down.
Page 3 is the kicker! Let him do the talking…. If you are the wife, you are permanent fixture and need to let it be known that you, her, and him will need to come together to successfully co-parents the kids.
You wanna know how I avoid it? By not getting with a man with kids!! Yea I feel you.. Mouthful said right here! You are NOT shallow. You are on the money.
I had people make me feel like I was scum of the earth for having just doubts about dating a man with kid s. Dude should handle that mess before starting a new relationship anyway. I once had a friend tell me how I was so selfish because I didnt date men with kids and needed to get use to most men having one kid even if they didnt tell you about it at our age of She hopped from childless man to child less man and had 3 kids by each childless one.
Well she got married to a man without kids and they have a kid together. He posts pics of the kid he has with her only one while she posts pics of all 4 of her kids. Kinda ironic isnt it? Your friends told you not to fault him for having children while they would probably turn around and fault a woman for having children.
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Ask a Black Woman. Hate Baby Mama Drama? PREVIOUS NEXT PAGE 1 of 6. Comments that contain profane or derogatory language, video links or exceed words will require approval by a moderator before appearing in the comment section. I would not date a man with children. But there is actual a BM syndrome Divorce Related Malicious Mother Syndrome: All the more reason to leave that type of dude in the first place.
Tell women what they need to do while never addressing the behavior in men. Close Thank you for subscribing!You are choosing to deal with someone Babay mama dating baggage, so you just have Babat deal with it. Only bring home bags you intend to unpack. To Babay mama dating and fail is better than doing nothing and saying I have succeeded…. Take all feelings into consideration. June 3, at 5: Post was not sent - check your email addresses! You getting married changes nothing unless your future husband decides to adopt your children.
Sources have exclusively revealed to BOSSIP that Idris Elba not only has a daughter with his ex-wife, but he also has a 6 month old son by Desiree Newberry, the young lady photographed above. Desiree, better known as Desi or Dezi, met Idris while working as a stripper at the infamous Magic City in Atlanta. According to our source, Elba moved a pregnant Newberry to his place in Miami and took care of her for a while before deciding to kick her out.
More details to come, but in the meantime, check out images of Desi for your viewing pleasure below:. I love this , So does— My boyfriend. Maybe you wanna check it out or tell your friends. Who ever said she isnt pretty is crazy. The only person who would think otherwise is some sick-in-the-head black folks who have a problem with the way black women look. She looks like Superhead. Still have mad love for you Idris, next time wrap it up or pull the faq out, naw mean??
I wish them all the best. A pack of condoms cost a lot less than child support! Magic City is 5 minutes away from the Clark Atlanta U and Spelman and 10 minutes from GA State and Everest Institute. She could have taken her earnings and educated herself. While the A is the home of the strip club, there are also a large array fo educational institutions where she could have taken steps to self improvement and might have still had Idris sitting beside her.
Unless he has 2 kids, his baby mother is in Atlanta and is a well known make up artist to the stars. Kind of sad that after he knocks her up he throws her out. But you gotta do what you gotta do. This speaks volume for his mostly private azz. I remember a time when men celebs or NOT did bring trash round their family, friends or pets.
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Who gone check me boo. I think she was preggers before she met him. How could he do this to me? Omg Idris, i had high hopes for us. When I read your comment I bust out laughing. I so agree with u. Dont Think I Won't Hitch Yah--Cause I'm Famous, I believe in KARMA. She is his ex-wife. Idris know he is in love with ME! A mil a year. See how so many are quick to play favoritism. Had it been someone else.